Grateful Woman

Life is a collection of moments influenced by so many. As I recall those that have made an impact on my professional life, I realize that most are women. Many I've known well, some I've barely known and some I've never met. They are influencers, bosses, risk-takers, mothers, co-workers, leaders, business associates, friends and employees. Considering I work in a male-dominated industry, I consider myself lucky to have met so many strong, passionate, professional women. We may be the few, but wow are we mighty.

Sitting at an airport bar waiting for one more flight home, I met a younger version of me. She, too, is in the same industry. She, too, is faced with the same challenges, barriers, frustrations, double standards and inappropriate situations. We spoke of what we need to improve upon - to stop apologizing, to be more direct, to know what questions to ask, to lead conversations and to better negotiate.

The enlightening conversation reminded me of the importance of reflecting on my lessons. So as part of that reflection, here are some things I've learned along the way:

• It's important to support your fellow woman
• You are an ambassador of your gender - represent us well
• Expect to work at least 25% harder and be prepared to be paid at least 25% less than your male counterparts (something I hope changes soon)
• Thicker skin is an asset
• C-suite men typically don't "get" that you still want to be the parent who takes your child to the doctor - their wives handle it
• It would be so nice to have a wife
• Female intuition is something completely under appreciated
• We can be our own worst enemy
• Don't apologize for your emotions - it's a gift

These are just some of the many lessons I've learned. I know there are more, but I think that covers it for now. I am grateful for my mother who taught me how to earn an income and to take care of myself. I am thankful to the women before me who helped pave the way. And I am so glad I've had the pleasure of interacting with some awesome women. You know who you are.